hello!! i m back. have been rather stress this few days. rushing projects after projects and sad to say that i have not finish any. WCD, IEB and FOM. the one that gives me the most headache is FOM. my team mates and i were unable to find any useful or right points to talk on. thinking back, life was never so stress during o levels. its the life i have now that is the beginning of my stress.

I have learnt many things this week. including how to manage and chill people down from a quarrel. this things are really useful and meaningful to me. wonder why people always approach me when they have problems. hmmm. perhaps i have those kind of face whom you can seek for when you have problems??? and just nice, those people who hate each other are talking to me. so i can see both side of the problems. and 'try' to help them from souring their relationship. but i cant really do that well. i have to admit.

there are many kinds of people around the world. some of these people are there to help you while others are there to harm you. they may have 2 sided personality. 1st saying that they will not backstab you and a moment later saying bad things behind other people's back. now what does this show people about you yourself??? you do not practice what you preach. killing each other especially when you are in the same class or same family or even in the same company will result in big disruption to something.

another kind of people are those who show out their anger no matter how hard they try to control it. (some don't even take the effort to control it) what i want to say to these people is that. you will not meet everyone and everything that goes the way you want it to be. there will always be things or people that go against your will and you or rather we should try to sometimes tolerate it. if its a small matter, forget it and carry on. but if its a big matter, why not approach the people in a state of a clear mind and discuss what both should do to improve the relationship. erupting as and when you like may hurt and spoil the mood of others around you. REMEMBER TOLERATE!!

the last kind of people i want to describe are those that treat things too seriously. try to cool down. some people might treat it as a joke. i know that it is difficult to change one's personality but what i can say is you will meet all different kinds of people in the world. sometimes, you will need jokes to relax yourself a little bit.

was too stress and guan yong was cracking his lame jokes to me just now. it did little effect to me because i know that i still have loads of work to do. haha. so... thanks anyway for that little effort of yours. heehee. =)

peace everyone. chill. your little actions do save your friendship between each other. but what i have learnt is to really take a good look at everyone before anything starts to happen. open your eyes wide. like what my secondary school teacher had told me. not everyone is as innocent as before. afterall, your bestest best friends will turn out to be your secondary school mates. so cherish them now before it is too late. and people having 2 sides are common. that is what you see in the working world. and its reality!!! the main thing is to always look on the brighter side and TOLERATE.. that particular person will never be your family member. its afterall a passer-by in your life.

lucky, i m not those who have lots of trouble finding friends in terms of communicating with them. piew.. anyway for those who have been tolerating me to save our friendship, i really thank you guys for doing that. cheersss.. =)

if you dont trouble trouble, trouble will not trouble you.....